Gabrielle Cio
3 min readMay 3, 2024

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Unspoken Linguistics: Decoding the Silent Comfort of Joss

In the quiet moments of solitude, there exists a profound understanding, transcending words. As the Filipino saying goes, “Sa katahimikan, kahit walang boses, naiintindihan niya ang aking lengwahe” (In silence, even without words, she understands my language). It’s in these tranquil spaces where true connection flourishes, where the absence of noise becomes a language of its own.

There’s a persistent need for the comfort of quiet and a soft hand in the middle of life’s state of chaos. The allure of silence grows more and more alluring as the world’s noise grows louder. The attraction of silence grows stronger as the world’s loudness gets louder. The Filipino adage reminds us that amidst the noise, it is the tranquility and the reassuring presence of a loved one’s hand that we truly seek: “Sa ingay, ang katahimikan at kamay ang kaniyang kailangan” (In noise, it’s silence and a hand that he needs).

In the narrative of personal comfort, there emerges a figure like Joss, a beacon of solace and respite. Joss, the one who dispels weariness and pain, the one who brings calmness in times of despair. In the midst of heartbreak and sorrow, it is to Joss that one always returns. “Si Joss na nagpapawi ng pagod at sakit, si Joss na nagpapakalma sa akin sa tuwing sawi” (Joss who eases fatigue and pain, Joss who soothes me whenever I’m broken).

In a world that often feels overwhelming, finding refuge in the presence of a cherished person like Joss becomes essential for navigating life’s chaos. Joss continues to be a dependable source of reassurance and security despite the unknowns and difficulties. One finds sanctuary — a place to loosen up and regenerate — in the comfort of her arms.

Joss’s importance goes beyond simple relationships; in times of trouble, she provides an escape and a safe place. One always goes to Joss as the day is ending and the shadows are growing longer, finding comfort in her constant presence.“Kay Joss lang palaging uuwi” (To Joss alone will I always return).

In the symphony of existence, amidst the cacophony of voices and the tumult of emotions, it is the quietude of understanding and the comforting touch of a loved one that resonates most deeply. Through the Filipino aphorism, we are reminded of the timeless truth that in silence, profound connections are forged, and in the embrace of a cherished companion like Joss, one finds solace and sanctuary.

The peaceful times I spend with Joss are like the calming tunes of “Pahintulot” by Shirebound & Busking; I am reminded of her unspoken approval of my affection for her. Joss gives me permission to explore the depths of my devotion for her, just like the moving lyrics, “Giliw, kung pahihintulutan mo ako, ay ipapakilala ko sana sayo ang buong mundo” (My dear, if you allow me, I will introduce the whole world to you).

I am very excited to show Joss the wonders of the world and the amount of love and beauty that is all around us. I will do this with unrestricted commitment. She is more than worthy of all the happiness and opportunities life has to give. Joss is an amazing person who deserves the greatest possible life because of her beautiful existence.

Joss motivates me to embrace life’s adventures with her, just like “Pahintulot” produces a sensation of longing and readiness to share the world with a cherished. We set off on an interesting and insightful adventure together, and every quiet moment reveals our affection and understanding for one another.

Joss’s agreement becomes as a lighthouse in the silence between us, illuminating our way through the disturbances and turbulence outside. I am reassured by her unspoken affirmation that my love is worthy of her confidence. Knowing that we share a foundation of respect and understanding, seeing her by my side gives me the confidence to face any challenges that may come my way.

The fact that Joss is in my life is evidence of the beauty of spoken language and the ability of love to surpass language. By giving the girl silent consent, she lets herself into a world of limitless opportunities, where love has no boundaries and every second is full with promise. She provides me comfort, company, and an understanding of what unrestricted affection truly signifies.

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